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As much as society wants to reinforce this, sexual orientation is not binary.

This means that sexual orientation is not just straight or gay. There are many terms to describe various sexual attractions, behaviors, and romantic orientations.

How should you feel about sex?

Some people tend to view sexuality as a spectrum, with one partner representing people who are completely heterosexual and the other representing people who are completely non-heterosexual. However, this view of sex is a flawed concept.

How does something as vast and unbounded as sex relate to a linear spectrum?

The answer is simple -- sexual orientation can't be narrowed down to a range. In pursuit of better representation, some have suggested that sex should actually be depicted as an infinite plane...

Where sex is limitless and each person can occupy a unique space.

The purpose of this way of thinking is to allow each individual to connect or separate their gender-related labels as they see fit.

Is not correct. There is nothing wrong. What should I do now?
Once you understand that sex is rigid and fluid, you can begin to explore what it means to you.

It may help to think about these questions:

Are you sure your past sexual and romantic experiences have satisfied your desires?
Have you ever experienced sexual curiosity that hasn't been acted upon? If so, why not take action? Are you afraid of being judged, misunderstood, or rejected?
Do you feel that the labels society gives you represent how you feel?
Do you think there is a difference between sexual orientation and romantic orientation?
Sharing your sexuality with others can be difficult and emotional for both non-heterosexual and heterosexual people. Although many people will immediately find the freedom to come out, the liberation of others can be overshadowed by the lack of support from friends and family.

It's important that you feel empowered to better understand and explore your sexuality before sharing it with others.

These 6 tips will help you navigate the field, learn more about your preferences, and build confidence in your sexuality.

masturbation
For those who have experienced sexual attraction, the process of better understanding and exploring your sexuality may include a partner.

The pressure to have sex with your partner is real, especially if you're unfamiliar with your own curiosity.

But what better way to release stress and play than to masturbate?

Masturbation can help you feel comfortable with your body. It gives you access to the things that bring you joy, while also teaching you the things you don't like. It helps to know these things once your partner is brought into the fold.

No matter what genitals you rock with, there are toys out there that can take your masturbation from mediocre to awesome.

2. Press Play Porn.
For straight people, this is everywhere. Movies, the media, and mainstream pornography have made a huge contribution to normalizing this sexual behavior. At the same time, the lack of representation elsewhere has led society to view queer sex, polyamory, group sex, and other types of sex as tasteless and destructive.

In recent years, however, the porn industry has sped up its game. Since sex on screen is more accessible and diverse than ever before, porn is an excellent option for those who wish to better understand and explore their sexuality.

Pay attention to what you think you like and what you think you don't.

Masturbate at the same time.

Find something that excites you.

Oh, a few more times.

3. Read it
While watching porn is a great way to gain validation and an understanding of what makes you feel hot and heavy, it can also be useful reading.

Read blogs or books about sex, sexual experiences, gender, and relationships. Invest in your story and the characters associated with it, and be inspired by the sexual narratives you participate in.

4. Talk to a professional
Better understanding and exploring your sexuality is easier said than done. While the challenges of coming out are well known, dealing with curiosity and positioning internally can be just as difficult.

Therefore, reaching out to a professional is usually a good idea. There are therapists who specialize in this issue. They can help you as you seek to learn more about your sexual self.

You can use an online platform to find the best therapist for you and what you want to achieve.
5. Talk to your gay friends
When you're trying to deal with something, especially something related to sexual orientation, it's always a good idea to chat with someone who has been through a similar experience.

If you want to better understand and explore your sexuality, don't hesitate to start a conversation with your gay friend or acquaintance. Their insights will come from life experience and may help you navigate some of the moving pieces you've been trying to deal with.

Also, if you have a hard time accepting your curiosity or desire to explore, talking to a gay person can provide confirmation.

Know that your feelings are not abnormal. It's not unacceptable, it's not a sin.

Your feelings are correct and important. You deserve to talk to people who inspire you. Gay friends can be a source of positive light when it comes to your sexuality.

6. Love yourself, and more of it
This skill is not as specific as the last one, but it is just as important.

Many people consider their sexuality to be an important part of their identity. If this sounds like you, then it's essential to start focusing on yourself from the inside out.

Self-love may be a buzzword, but the value of doing so is real. Take time to love yourself. The first step to confidently exploring and understanding your sexuality is to find inner peace, patience, and passion.